Three Faces off “You”

All human being as generally observed, we all have THREE FACES. with which we all live upon.
The FIRST FACE – what we show to people in general. Our GENERIC face as you can call it. We use this face to acquire money, power, people, position in the society etc. This is how the world in general knows us.
The SECOND FACE – what we show to our Family & Friends, close allies, etc. This is how our closed circle knows us. Our HEART Face as you can call it. We use this to keep our friends & family happy, show them care & love via this. We use this to make them understand that we are close to them and project to them as they us well.
The THIRD FACE – what we never show to anyone. The worst part is, over 90% of Human are themselves unaware of this face & rather worried to see the “REAL ME”. In fact we are even so busy in our day to day routine & spend most of our time thinking we only have the FIRST & SECOND FACE, completely NEGLECTING the THIRD FACE, knowingly or unknowingly.
However, with this current scenario, surely we have got lot of time to meet our own self and identify the THIRD FACE & make the most of it.
The THIRD Face – Things to do
  • Observe – Observe your inner self and see who you are. Try to know yourself, your beliefs, your thoughts about YOU, try to hear the inner self and try to find the PURPOSE OF YOUR EXISTENCE

  • Note it Down carefully – Try making a note about the person “YOU”. Once you have learned about your purpose of existence, it is important for you to learn the methods to fulfill it. Hence if you’ve noted it, it becomes easily accessible for you

  • Understand your weaknesses – Every human has its own strengths & weaknesses. This is the time to understand your weaknesses and try to find out ways to convert them into your own strengths. Ask yourself and identify this hidden things which may be an obstacle for your progress

  • Alter your habits – Knowingly/unknowingly we may have developed so many habits which may not be of any good to us. It can be physical habits or emotional habits. Physical habits like smoking, too much tea/coffee, fast-food etc.We may get a good break from it and surely we can easily get rid of it. Similarly, we may have started to get irritated easily, short tempered and so on. This all can be ALTERED or DELETED from our mental system, once we connect to our THIRD FACE

  • Alter your Attitude – In our busy schedules throughout, we may have changed somewhere in terms of our Attitude towards others. We may want to utilize this time to RESET our ATTITUDE which has lot of GRATITUDE with it.

  • Thank People/GRATITUDE – If you believe that wherever you are today is because of your own self. Possibly that is your FIRST & SECOND FACE talking.But if you see your THIRD FACE, you will realize, you are where you are because of lot of people in your life. It can be your business partners, friends, family, colleagues, associates, clients, vendors and what not. Utilize this precious time to THANK PEOPLE.When you are grateful to others, trust me the universe leaves no stones unturned to return the same gratitude back in form of Happiness and sense of belonging in your life
Hopefully the time shall be utilized by you and surely this shall help you to identify the THIRD FACE.
So when you are up & running after a long break, you are ready with your Purpose of Existence and support of the entire Universe to Fly even higher than where you are today.

Comments

  1. Ashu23 May 2024 at 19:40

    The 3 faces described constitute to the personality of an individual and make you who you are,
    The self actualisation process you mentioned will bring positive outcome to the individual both at personal and professional levels,

    Waiting for more writeups from you Jekin,

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